I’ve got a really important message for you this week.
This is something that I’ve thought about for a very long time and I’ve wondered how to talk about it, when to talk about it, and finally last week I decided to stop wondering and just do it.
I think for many women reading this, what I am going to tell you will make you feel so much better. My hope is that if you have a ball of tension around your heart when it comes to this topic, that it will begin to ease a bit now (I wrote about this on the blog a few weeks ago).
This is a reframe – an opportunity for you to look at something in a new way.
This is a chance for you to feel empowered by your body instead of full of fear, anxiety, guilt or shame about what your body can or can’t do.
This will help you to embrace what’s within your control and to let go of what you can’t control.
In letting go, you free up space for the magic to happen. Tweet This!
I recently shared with someone that when it comes to fertility and infertility I think too often women get lost in the language. I told her that I think for a lot of women, when they hear “fertility” they think of struggle, of having difficulty conceiving, of not being fertile. “Oh my gosh, you’re right!” she said, “I think that’s how I’ve thought about it too.”
I raised the question on Facebook with a word association game – “When you hear the word fertility, what comes to mind?”
One woman wrote, “struggle” while another wrote “confusing, hard, mysterious, a pain, not precise, too precise…”
If that’s how you think about it too, I want you to be open to a new possibility.
What if you flipped this on its head? What if you could separate fertility from infertility? What could that open up for you?
I want you to feel empowered when you hear the word fertility, no matter what your journey has been like in the past, no matter what stories are part of your narrative.
Think of fertility as being proactive, about creating the best and most nourishing environment in your body, mind, and spirit that you can, about cultivating a space that is full of joy, love, and all that you need for growth.
Hold compassion for yourself as you step onto this path.
I want you to step into this feeling of fertility as what you can do first and foremost for yourself. And remember, fertility is not just about preparing yourself to grow a baby; it is about preparing yourself to live your life to the fullest, with passion and joy.
By thinking about fertility in this way, you prepare yourself to bring more gentleness and kindness to yourself if infertility does become part of your story. You will know that you have set a strong foundation, and you will move forward on your journey feeling more empowered than overwhelmed.
I’d love to know what fertility means for you, and what this perspective opens up for you. Leave a comment below and let us know!
Peace, Love, and Wellness,